Our Love Story

A journey from a message... to a moment... to a lifetime

The Beginning

Once upon a quiet, ordinary day, a message was sent.

No expectations. No grand beginnings.

Just two people. One out at sea, One on land and a connection neither of us saw coming.

At that time, I was going through a lot. Lost in my thoughts, uncertain about the future. But the moment she entered my world, everything began to feel a little lighter.

What started as simple conversations became something deeper. Day by day, we uncovered each other's hearts. One story, one laugh, one late-night message at a time.

The First Meeting

Then came the moment we met.

The pandemic rerouted my flight through Cebu, and she by fate or faith, was working there, right where I landed.

A short airport encounter, a simple exchange... but something inside us both knew.

That was the beginning of us.

The Dating Days

We started dating, not the glamorous kind, but the real kind.

Shared meals, belly laughs, little moments that made life feel full.

Our first official date was nothing fancy, grilled food, a great view, and the kind of conversation that made time feel slower.

Chixboy became our go-to. Cebu, our little backdrop of beginnings. We laughed, we ate, we made memories. And yes, nagtambok kami haha.

November 15, 2021

She said yes. Not just to being my girlfriend, but to walking beside me heart to heart, step by step.

I've had my share of mistakes in life, but she saw through it. She didn't just love the good in me. She loved all of me.

So I gave her a promise ring, a quiet vow that I would become the man she believed I could be.

Faith & Foundation

Faith was and still is the center of it all.

Even now, we visit Simala Shrine each time I'm home, to say Thank You... and to pray for the life we're building together.

Adventures Together

Then came our first out-of-town trip: Bohol.

Secret. Spontaneous. Just us.

We explored, laughed, and held hands through the unknown. It was thrilling not just because of where we were, but because of who we were becoming together.

Growing Together

But like any love story, there were bumps too.

Our first "away" happened in front of friends (who, to this day, probably still remember how suplado I was 😅).

But she stayed calm. She understood me in a way no one else ever had.

That day, I knew she's the one.

Eventually, she came with me to Bacolod, her first time meeting my family.

And seeing her there, smiling with the people I love, made everything feel right.

She wasn't just mine anymore. She was becoming part of my world.

Distance & Devotion

When it was time for me to return to the ship, it was hard.

We both felt the silence, the space.

So I left her with something to hold onto, a 'mini me', a cuddle-sized pillow shaped like a mini human version of me (yes, seriously 😂).

A silly gift... but one filled with love.

The missing was different with her.

It wasn't just about distance. It was the ache of being apart from your home, your peace, your person.

Still, she embraced even the parts of me that others couldn't.

Especially the childish and immature parts, and even the moody days.

And somehow, she made me feel like I was enough just as I was.

Traveling the World

We traveled together, and shared firsts together. We had our first trip abroad with my brothers to Singapore and Malaysia.

Those days were full of new sights, but the best view was still her, laughing beside me.

The Proposal

Then... the proposal.

The idea came to me while at sea.

I didn't know when or how, but I knew I couldn't wait to ask.

So before our second anniversary, the ring was ready... and so was I.

On the very day she said yes to being my girlfriend two years earlier,

She said yes again.

To forever.

And now, here we are.

Still writing our love story.

Still choosing each other, every day.

And this time, we get to say "I do" with all of you beside us.

Wedding Details

Ceremony

Saturday, November 15, 2025

4:00 PM

Chapel of San Pedro Calungsod
SM Seaside Complex, Church Ave
Cebu City, Cebu, Philippines

Reception

Following the ceremony

BAI Hotel

Ouano Avenue, corner C.D.Seno
Mandaue City, Cebu, Philippines

Dress Code

FORMAL AFFAIR

Gentlemen: Barong Tagalog

Ladies: Modern Filipiniana/Puff-sleeve Dress

We kindly ask all our guests to follow the dress code to help us create a beautiful and cohesive celebration. Please join us in formal attire as we celebrate this special day together!

Suggested Colors: Chocolate Brown, Camel, Tan, Khaki, Mocha, Caramel, Cinnamon

RSVP

Kindly respond by September 30, 2025

Contact: 09999571495

Email: joannemainit.24@gmail.com

or crisfernandez411@gmail.com

Please let us know if you'll be attending by filling out the RSVP form at the bottom of this page.

RSVP Now

Be Present With Us

We'd love for you to be fully present as we say "I do." Feel free to snap a few photos or videos, but please don't block the view of our photographers. They've got the job of capturing every moment beautifully.

We have invited a team to help us capture this day so just be present and keep our ceremony camera free just until we say "I DO".

Thank you for sharing this special moment with us.

Adults Only Affair

We love your little ones, but to give all our guests a chance to relax and celebrate with us, we kindly request an adult-only reception. Children in the entourage are, of course, most welcome.

While we adore your children, our venue do not have the room for all the little ones. Please make it a date night.

This will be an adults-only celebration.

Gift

As love is what this occasion is all about, your presence is one we can not celebrate without.

Should you, however, still believe that a gift is worth giving, a small envelope for our future will indeed be a delightful blessing.

Your presence is truly the best gift. But if you wish to give more, a monetary gift would be sincerely appreciated as we start this new chapter together.

Wedding Hashtag

#deFAITHnitelydestinedforCRIS

Share your photos and memories with our special hashtag!

Wedding Entourage

Parents

Parents of the Groom

Mr. Merfel Fernandez

Mrs. Miyusi Fernandez

Parents of the Bride

Mr. Federico Mainit Jr.

Mrs. Norcelita Mainit

Principal Sponsors

Ninongs

Mr. Kevin Bolok

Mr. Newell Cubacub

Mr. Roy Hermosisima

Mr. Aniano Gador Jr.

Mr. Albin Tan

Mr. Ignacio Santillana

Mr. Gary Paragamac

Mr. Bonifacio Castro

Ninangs

Mrs. Karem Bolok

Mrs. Maricel Lipardo

Mrs. Soledad Hermosisima

Mrs. Quennie Lynn Gador

Mrs. Perla Tan

Mrs. Anna Liza Santillana

Mrs. Roselle Paragamac

Mrs. Gemma Cristina Castro

Best Man

Vann Miller Fernandez

Maid of Honor

Janine Lacandula

Secondary Sponsors

Candle

Mr. Joel Lapinig & Mrs. Marie Grace Lapinig

Cord

Mr. Julius Sienes & Mrs. Rachel Sienes

Veil

Mr. Mark Phillips Chavez & Mrs. Novah Chavez

Groomsmen

Lian Miller Fernandez

Joseph Ryan Opina

Edmar Amayna

Joseph Marc Brandei Caceres

Belle Jul Dorliac

Neil Patrick Garcia

Mikko John Rafil

Bridesmaids

Lalaine Joaquino

Nymhia Chavez

Guada Fe Gabayan

Glazy Rose Cabisan

Mary Claire Giluano

Analiza Desquitado

Jane Dale Amayna

Flower Girls & Bearers

Ring Bearer

David Zion Chavez

Bible Bearer

Marco Jose Rosalem

Coin Bearer

Alab Sebastian Ligaray

Flower Girls

Johanna Verena Rosalem

Jaiyana Micaela Lacandula

Thalia Jesse Amayna

Frequently Asked Questions

🕐 What time should I arrive?

Help us get the event started as scheduled! We recommend that you arrive 15 to 30 minutes before the start of the ceremony to make sure everyone is seated on time. We encourage you to consider the travel time and traffic going to the venue.

👥 Can I bring someone with me?

Due to limited space of accommodation, we can only accommodate those guests formally invited via e-invitations. Please refer to your e-invitation for the number of allocated seat/s for you and you have to register the name/s that will attend in the RSVP form.

Please respect our request not to bring uninvited guest with you. Your cooperation in this matter is greatly appreciated, as it ensures that every guest has a comfortable and enjoyable experience.

👤 Is the venue child-friendly?

While we love all of the children in our lives, we have decided to keep our wedding reception an adults-only event, unless the kids are part of the entourage or specifically requested by the couple. We politely request no children below 9 years old.

📸 Can I take photos during the ceremony?

We're so excited to have professionals capturing our special day! To help keep the moment intimate and distraction-free, we kindly ask that you refrain from taking photos or videos during the ceremony—especially as the bride walks down the aisle. Once we've said "I do," and the celebration begins, please feel free to take as many photos and videos as you'd like. Your memories mean so much to us!

🕰️ What is your wedding timeline?

👋 When can we leave?

As the evening comes to a close, please join us for a farewell and say goodbye before you leave after the Same Day Edit video finishes playing. Please don't eat and run.

You Are Cordially Invited

Cris Miller & Joanne Faith